Page 9 - The-Role-of-Parents-in-Guidance

Space for dialogue

Creating a space for dialogue between parents and children is
indisputably relevant. The exchange of ideas on themes of everyday
life fosters this dialogue and contributes to the strengthening of
bonds of trust. When parents listen to their children's dreams, they
get a more precise idea of their singularities and what has special
meaning for them. However, when listening to their parents' life
experiences, children feel that they actually share similar situations,
analysing how their parents answer them and drawing valuable
conclusions.

Communicating openly about a life project implies that there is no
fear of being judged or dominated and facilitates parents'
understanding of what their children intend to do in the future. Take
advantage of auspicious occasions to approach key aspects, for
example if the family saw a remarkable film, why not take advantage
of that experience as a subject to discuss. Many family conversations
are an opportunity for children to express their concerns and to reveal
their interests. These are also privileged moments for the
encouragement, sharing and reformulation of ideals.
Throughout life one has to assume different functions and put into
action various capacities and knowledge. Prepare your children for
these challenges.

PROMOTE PLANNING
Talk to your children about:

How your children look to the future. Promote positive scenarios for
the future. Fostering hope is important for children to be interested
in preparing for the future.

Dreams and projects for the future. Imagining multiple possibilities is
the first step in finding options that will interest them.

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